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== BBW Women are Sexy Ladies ==
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== '''[http://www.top100datingpersonals.com/BBWdating.php/ BBW Women are Sexy Ladies]''' ==
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Everyone has his or her own definition of sexy. <br />
 +
The idea of sexy has many different meanings to individual people.  <br />
 +
Over the years, the boundaries have been pushed, tested, stretched and shattered where the concept of sexy is concerned.  <br />
 +
Sex, for most of the twentieth century, was considered to be a taboo topic.  <br />
 +
Once the big screen became a big part of everyone's life, the idea of being seen with a large woman on your arm fell out of favor with the majority of men.  <br />
 +
Big Screen sirens were usually more willowy than most other women for their time. <br />
 +
The reason was simple; cameras add pounds to anyone's form, so moviestars tended to be thinner than average in real life to appear normal on the screen.  <br />
 +
Slowly, the idea of sexy gradually shifted from voluptuous to thin. <br /><br />
 +
 +
There is now a shift underway that is moving the concept of what is sexy to more normal BMI's. <br />
 +
With plastic surgery, big boobs are in fashion again, even on skinny women. <br />
 +
Push up bras  with even triple padding are hot selling items among the slim set, but when their dates see them naked on, the jig (jug?) is up.  <br />
 +
Men are let down with falsie wearing women.  Because of this, many men are starting to look at more naturally enhanced women, so curvy is back in vogue.  <br />
 +
And on that note, who is more curvy than a big beautiful woman?<br /><br />
 +
 +
When you look back in time, voluptuous women were the most desireable. <br />
 +
Larger women were seen as mother figures, and children were a necessity in nomadic and agricultural societies.  <br />
 +
Even in during the last ice age, small figurines often depicted their goddesses as  well endowed women and in most cases these figurines were more fat than voluptuous. <br /><br />
 +
 +
The lyrics in "Fiddler On The Roof" (If I Was a Rich Man) which talks about Russian rural society in the early 1900's exemplifies a rich man's wife as having a proper double chin. <br />
 +
In other words, for much of the past, being meatier was a status symbol, because it proved you had plenty to eat, and therefore must be wealthy.<br /><br />
 +
 +
Towards the end of the twentieth century, there has been a new incoming citizens from many various societies into north America. <br />
 +
With these cultures have come a desire for larger families and more motherly builds.  <br />
 +
The voluptuous mother figure is back in fashion.<br /><br />
 +
 +
Who knows, maybe in a few more years, Hollywood hotties will be [http://www.top100datingpersonals.com/BBWdating.php/ '''BBW's''']. <br />
 +
Mae West was certainly not in any way skinny, but in the early 20's and 30's she was most men's ideal of a sexy lady.<br /><br />
 +
 +
If you are interested in meeting and dating big beautiful women, or if you are a '''BBW''' looking to meet a man who will love what and who you are, then you should check out this page: [http://www.top100datingpersonals.com/BBWdating.php/ BBW Dating Sites]<br /><br />
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There are also a lot of other dating genres out there, so for those of you who are not into big beautiful women, this is the link for you: [http://www.top100datingpersonals.com/ Top Dating Sites]
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== Online Dating Help ==
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 +
===='''Comprehensive List Of Dating Help Articles'''====
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 +
Which Online Dating Sites are the best?<br />
 +
Do you need someone to share your life with?<br />
 +
If you are a man looking for a man or a woman looking for a woman, or if you are a man looking for a woman or a woman looking for a man, it is totally possible to find someone who is interested in the same things that you are. <br />
 +
Are you afraid to try Internet Dating?<br />
 +
 +
To help make your search and your Internet dating experience easier, I have found a site that specializes in giving advice to online daters, as well as being a listing service for most of the better quality dating sites on the internet. <br /><br />
 +
 +
====='''Dating and Health Advice'''=====
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 +
Much of the content of the site is devoted to health and dating issues
 +
 +
'''[http://www.top100datingpersonals.com/datingandhealthadvice.php/ Dating and Health Advice] ''' – This is a key page to the site content. It is a catalogue of all the dating and health articles in the site. The dating and health pages are full of useful information as to how to improve your existing relationship, how to start a new relationship, and what not to do. In conjunction with this, there are many health tips so that you can enjoy your love life for many years to come. The articles range from dieting tips, lifestyle tips, and advice on specific sex and sexuality issues.
 +
 +
'''Dating Advice For Men''' – Many of these articles are written by women to give men specific advice on a female point of view in many common situations. These cover issues such as male performance, sexual techniques in bed to achieve a more satisfying experience for your lover, how to last longer, simple exercises guaranteed to improve your sexual performance, and even tackles issues of whether women think that hair loss is unattractive or not.Every man will find useful information here.
 +
 +
'''How to Woo and Hold a Man''' – These articles are written for women. As often as not they are written by men. Women who have had poor success with long term male relationships need to check out these articles. We guarantee that these are not your garden variety Cosmopolitan advice snippets.
 +
 +
 +
The list of [http://www.top100datingpersonals.com/recommended_sites.php/ recommended dating sites] are organized in several ways.
 +
 +
The first site list is strictly an alphabetical sort of sites that they have reviewed, with a recommendation.
 +
Then there are a series of lists that are focused on specific dating genres.
 +
 +
The following focus areas make it easy for you to zero in on the types of information that you need:
 +
 +
'''Online Dating Sites''' – This is a compendium of regular dating sites ordered by site rating. These are the best places to look if you are and average person in your sexual outlooks and your main goal is to find a life partner.
 +
 +
'''Top Ten Dating ''' – This particular page has the top site from each of the other genres, so it is the best of the best. If you know your sex and sexuality, then this page will point you to one specific site that best meets your needs.
 +
 +
'''Cheap Dating Sites''' – For the financially challenged out there, it will show you the lowest cost sites. The sites in this listing are mostly free to use.
 +
 +
'''Shemales''' ---Transvestite Dating Sites (Transgender, Transexual) – these sites are specifically for this small subset our population who are into such innocuous things as cross-dressing, right up to and including those who are pre or post op sex change candidates.
 +
 +
'''Married Couple Personals''' – If you are into a swinging lifestyle, then this is not the correct page. There is a swingers page better suited for swingers. Rather, this is for couples that just want to meet other couples to do things together. In other words, this is the right place to be when you want to meet other couples for social engagements.
 +
 +
'''BBW Dating Sites (big beautiful women)''' are the best place to meet well endowed women of all ages. No bulimic bimbos to be found here! If you are into that, then try the adult dating sites. These particular sites usually also cater to the big handsome men (BHM) crowd. So if you like your men with some meat on them, then check out BBW dating sites or BHM dating sites.
 +
 +
'''Dating MILF''' --- In case you are unaware of the acronym MILF stands for Mothers I would Love to F#%k. What these sites are really for are places to meet women in their late twenties, thirties and early forties who are single and have children. If  you are are a man and having trouble getting a serious relationship going because many women see your children as an obstacle, then this is the place to be. Single mothers often end up in low paying jobs and have almost no budget for entertainment. In fact, some of them may look a bit tattered around the edges because they do not have new clothes.  Take your time and look for the possible fine jewel in the raw stone. Most of them are quite beautiful. Offering to pick up the babysitting fee is a sure way to clinch a date.
 +
 +
'''Bondage, Domination, Sado-Masochism (BDSM)''' cater to those who are into sado masochism, domination and/or bondage. Although this may sound a bit tortuous, in actual practice it is not. There are people who like being submissive to a Dom. It is almost as if they are seeking sexual exploitation. In fact, BDSM is usually just a harmless game where people get to be 'punished' or are the 'punisher'. Nobody really gets hurt. It is much more of an excuse to dress up in sexy leather outfits than anything else. Think of it as an elaborate extention of 'Marian the librarian' but with cloth covered handcuffs or tie down sheets.
 +
 +
'''Adult Dating Sites''' – If you are looking for a partner that is interested in more than man on top woman on bottom, then this is likely the place to start. Just remember that you are unlikely to find BDSM or Swingers on sites like these.
 +
 +
'''Boomer Dating''' – As the boomers get older, sites have sprung up to cater to this age bubble. The objective here is to hook up people of similar ages. These sites tend to be simpler than most dating sites because the focus is narrower. The objective is to meet people for dates. The main focus is companions and dating adventures. If that leads to something deeper, then that is fine too.
 +
 +
'''Gay'''. If you are a man looking for a man, These are the best sites to meet your needs. In fact, some sites specialize in servicing subsets of the gay community. Sites specializing on 'Bears' and 'Twinks' and many other sub-genres are readily available.
 +
 +
'''Lesbian Dating Sites''' Lesbians should not waste their time setting up a profile on any other type of site than a dedicated lesbian dating site. All lesbians know that it takes a woman to truly satisfy a woman. If you have experimented with a girl-girl relationship in your earlier years, you might want to reflect on it and consider revisiting the emotional highs of that time. Lesbians tend to be more successful that most women. If nothing else, they will be great friends.
 +
 +
'''Latina Dating Sites''' are sites that are primarily focused on meeting people from various Spanish or Portuguese backgrounds. These may also include people from Mexico, Brazil, and many South American and North American countries. These sites are also the best place to meet people who are of the Catholic faith. Since many people on these sites can speak English, at least as a second language, do not let the fact that you do not speak Spanish or Portuguese deter you from joining.
 +
 +
'''Foreign Dating''' – not all people live in North America, and not all people who live in North America want to just look for a future partner within the confines of North America. Included in this buffet are language specific sites along with country specific sites. If English is not your first language, you might feel more comfortable on one of these sites.
 +
 +
'''Asian Dating - Korean Dating – Japanese Dating – Thai Dating – Chinese Dating''' – this list of personals sites are focused on helping people meet someone with one of several Asian Ethnic backgrounds Because of world population densities, these sites tend to be predominantly Chinese, but they are also the best places to look for someone from any south and central east asian culture, including Japanese, Korean, Vietnamese and Thai. If you are seeking someone from one of the above groups then check out Asian Dating Sites.
 +
 +
'''Black Personals''' – There is a growing number of people, be they black or a different color, who are interested in dating a black person. If you are predisposed to seeking a black man or finding a black woman, you may find that your immediate local community does not give you much of a selection to chose from. One particular advantage of black dating sites is that they extend your search radius outside of your local community They also allow you to connect with someone on a personal level before you even meet them.
 +
 +
'''Casual Dating Sites''' – These sites are designed to service the needs of people who are too busy and/or too focused on their career to consider a permanent relationship. Even so, these people may still have a need for a date to attend certain types of business functions, or just to make it more comfortable to attend social gatherings of fellow workers. People on these sites do not want the entanglements of anything permanent, but they are not looking for hundreds of one night stands either. What they are looking for are relationships with several people to take on dates to various venues. That does not mean that friends with benefits situations do not arise, but that is not the primary purpose as some would think.
 +
 +
 +
'''CO-ED Dating Sites''' – These sites are specifically focused on college-aged students. Having people from the same generation and the same educational background is a great way to jump start your life and your career. College dating sites are an amazing go-to place for students who are away from home and totally on their own for the first time in their lives. Especially if you are new on campus and unsure of where to start meeting people.
 +
 +
'''[http://www.top100datingpersonals.com/videodating.php/ Video Dating]''' – These sites are focused on one-to-one interactive video chats. In most cases, the parties never actually meet in person, or expect to. Many people on these sites are exhibitionists who are looking to do things that are not possible in a more public forum.
 +
 +
'''Swinger Personals''' – For couples who are into various sexual activities such as three-some sex, wife swapping, group sex – with two or several couples, and in some exceptional cases this also includes bisexual sex.
 +
 +
'''[http://www.top100datingpersonals.com/nudedating.php/ Nude Dating]''' – Essentially these are sites that specialize in servicing sun worshippers. These sites are also for people who are totally comfortable in their skin. If you have any qualms about the way your look or are embarrassed by your body, then this is not the place to be seeking a companion.
 +
 +
A quick jumping off dating site directory for all of the aforementioned special sites can be seen at:
 +
'''[http://www.top100datingpersonals.com/ Which Online Dating Sites are the best?]'''

Latest revision as of 17:07, 7 February 2012

Contents

Hello From Dating Guru

Sorry for being so pompous sounding.

Hopefully you will like what I post.


My home domain is a compendium of recommended dating sites:

Top Dating Sites

BBW Women are Sexy Ladies

BBW Women are Sexy Ladies

Everyone has his or her own definition of sexy.
The idea of sexy has many different meanings to individual people.
Over the years, the boundaries have been pushed, tested, stretched and shattered where the concept of sexy is concerned.
Sex, for most of the twentieth century, was considered to be a taboo topic.
Once the big screen became a big part of everyone's life, the idea of being seen with a large woman on your arm fell out of favor with the majority of men.
Big Screen sirens were usually more willowy than most other women for their time.
The reason was simple; cameras add pounds to anyone's form, so moviestars tended to be thinner than average in real life to appear normal on the screen.
Slowly, the idea of sexy gradually shifted from voluptuous to thin.

There is now a shift underway that is moving the concept of what is sexy to more normal BMI's.
With plastic surgery, big boobs are in fashion again, even on skinny women.
Push up bras with even triple padding are hot selling items among the slim set, but when their dates see them naked on, the jig (jug?) is up.
Men are let down with falsie wearing women. Because of this, many men are starting to look at more naturally enhanced women, so curvy is back in vogue.
And on that note, who is more curvy than a big beautiful woman?

When you look back in time, voluptuous women were the most desireable.
Larger women were seen as mother figures, and children were a necessity in nomadic and agricultural societies.
Even in during the last ice age, small figurines often depicted their goddesses as well endowed women and in most cases these figurines were more fat than voluptuous.

The lyrics in "Fiddler On The Roof" (If I Was a Rich Man) which talks about Russian rural society in the early 1900's exemplifies a rich man's wife as having a proper double chin.
In other words, for much of the past, being meatier was a status symbol, because it proved you had plenty to eat, and therefore must be wealthy.

Towards the end of the twentieth century, there has been a new incoming citizens from many various societies into north America.
With these cultures have come a desire for larger families and more motherly builds.
The voluptuous mother figure is back in fashion.

Who knows, maybe in a few more years, Hollywood hotties will be BBW's.
Mae West was certainly not in any way skinny, but in the early 20's and 30's she was most men's ideal of a sexy lady.

If you are interested in meeting and dating big beautiful women, or if you are a BBW looking to meet a man who will love what and who you are, then you should check out this page: BBW Dating Sites


There are also a lot of other dating genres out there, so for those of you who are not into big beautiful women, this is the link for you: Top Dating Sites

Online Dating Help

Comprehensive List Of Dating Help Articles

Which Online Dating Sites are the best?
Do you need someone to share your life with?
If you are a man looking for a man or a woman looking for a woman, or if you are a man looking for a woman or a woman looking for a man, it is totally possible to find someone who is interested in the same things that you are.
Are you afraid to try Internet Dating?

To help make your search and your Internet dating experience easier, I have found a site that specializes in giving advice to online daters, as well as being a listing service for most of the better quality dating sites on the internet.

Dating and Health Advice

Much of the content of the site is devoted to health and dating issues

Dating and Health Advice – This is a key page to the site content. It is a catalogue of all the dating and health articles in the site. The dating and health pages are full of useful information as to how to improve your existing relationship, how to start a new relationship, and what not to do. In conjunction with this, there are many health tips so that you can enjoy your love life for many years to come. The articles range from dieting tips, lifestyle tips, and advice on specific sex and sexuality issues.

Dating Advice For Men – Many of these articles are written by women to give men specific advice on a female point of view in many common situations. These cover issues such as male performance, sexual techniques in bed to achieve a more satisfying experience for your lover, how to last longer, simple exercises guaranteed to improve your sexual performance, and even tackles issues of whether women think that hair loss is unattractive or not.Every man will find useful information here.

How to Woo and Hold a Man – These articles are written for women. As often as not they are written by men. Women who have had poor success with long term male relationships need to check out these articles. We guarantee that these are not your garden variety Cosmopolitan advice snippets.


The list of recommended dating sites are organized in several ways.

The first site list is strictly an alphabetical sort of sites that they have reviewed, with a recommendation. Then there are a series of lists that are focused on specific dating genres.

The following focus areas make it easy for you to zero in on the types of information that you need:

Online Dating Sites – This is a compendium of regular dating sites ordered by site rating. These are the best places to look if you are and average person in your sexual outlooks and your main goal is to find a life partner.

Top Ten Dating – This particular page has the top site from each of the other genres, so it is the best of the best. If you know your sex and sexuality, then this page will point you to one specific site that best meets your needs.

Cheap Dating Sites – For the financially challenged out there, it will show you the lowest cost sites. The sites in this listing are mostly free to use.

Shemales ---Transvestite Dating Sites (Transgender, Transexual) – these sites are specifically for this small subset our population who are into such innocuous things as cross-dressing, right up to and including those who are pre or post op sex change candidates.

Married Couple Personals – If you are into a swinging lifestyle, then this is not the correct page. There is a swingers page better suited for swingers. Rather, this is for couples that just want to meet other couples to do things together. In other words, this is the right place to be when you want to meet other couples for social engagements.

BBW Dating Sites (big beautiful women) are the best place to meet well endowed women of all ages. No bulimic bimbos to be found here! If you are into that, then try the adult dating sites. These particular sites usually also cater to the big handsome men (BHM) crowd. So if you like your men with some meat on them, then check out BBW dating sites or BHM dating sites.

Dating MILF --- In case you are unaware of the acronym MILF stands for Mothers I would Love to F#%k. What these sites are really for are places to meet women in their late twenties, thirties and early forties who are single and have children. If you are are a man and having trouble getting a serious relationship going because many women see your children as an obstacle, then this is the place to be. Single mothers often end up in low paying jobs and have almost no budget for entertainment. In fact, some of them may look a bit tattered around the edges because they do not have new clothes. Take your time and look for the possible fine jewel in the raw stone. Most of them are quite beautiful. Offering to pick up the babysitting fee is a sure way to clinch a date.

Bondage, Domination, Sado-Masochism (BDSM) cater to those who are into sado masochism, domination and/or bondage. Although this may sound a bit tortuous, in actual practice it is not. There are people who like being submissive to a Dom. It is almost as if they are seeking sexual exploitation. In fact, BDSM is usually just a harmless game where people get to be 'punished' or are the 'punisher'. Nobody really gets hurt. It is much more of an excuse to dress up in sexy leather outfits than anything else. Think of it as an elaborate extention of 'Marian the librarian' but with cloth covered handcuffs or tie down sheets.

Adult Dating Sites – If you are looking for a partner that is interested in more than man on top woman on bottom, then this is likely the place to start. Just remember that you are unlikely to find BDSM or Swingers on sites like these.

Boomer Dating – As the boomers get older, sites have sprung up to cater to this age bubble. The objective here is to hook up people of similar ages. These sites tend to be simpler than most dating sites because the focus is narrower. The objective is to meet people for dates. The main focus is companions and dating adventures. If that leads to something deeper, then that is fine too.

Gay. If you are a man looking for a man, These are the best sites to meet your needs. In fact, some sites specialize in servicing subsets of the gay community. Sites specializing on 'Bears' and 'Twinks' and many other sub-genres are readily available.

Lesbian Dating Sites Lesbians should not waste their time setting up a profile on any other type of site than a dedicated lesbian dating site. All lesbians know that it takes a woman to truly satisfy a woman. If you have experimented with a girl-girl relationship in your earlier years, you might want to reflect on it and consider revisiting the emotional highs of that time. Lesbians tend to be more successful that most women. If nothing else, they will be great friends.

Latina Dating Sites are sites that are primarily focused on meeting people from various Spanish or Portuguese backgrounds. These may also include people from Mexico, Brazil, and many South American and North American countries. These sites are also the best place to meet people who are of the Catholic faith. Since many people on these sites can speak English, at least as a second language, do not let the fact that you do not speak Spanish or Portuguese deter you from joining.

Foreign Dating – not all people live in North America, and not all people who live in North America want to just look for a future partner within the confines of North America. Included in this buffet are language specific sites along with country specific sites. If English is not your first language, you might feel more comfortable on one of these sites.

Asian Dating - Korean Dating – Japanese Dating – Thai Dating – Chinese Dating – this list of personals sites are focused on helping people meet someone with one of several Asian Ethnic backgrounds Because of world population densities, these sites tend to be predominantly Chinese, but they are also the best places to look for someone from any south and central east asian culture, including Japanese, Korean, Vietnamese and Thai. If you are seeking someone from one of the above groups then check out Asian Dating Sites.

Black Personals – There is a growing number of people, be they black or a different color, who are interested in dating a black person. If you are predisposed to seeking a black man or finding a black woman, you may find that your immediate local community does not give you much of a selection to chose from. One particular advantage of black dating sites is that they extend your search radius outside of your local community They also allow you to connect with someone on a personal level before you even meet them.

Casual Dating Sites – These sites are designed to service the needs of people who are too busy and/or too focused on their career to consider a permanent relationship. Even so, these people may still have a need for a date to attend certain types of business functions, or just to make it more comfortable to attend social gatherings of fellow workers. People on these sites do not want the entanglements of anything permanent, but they are not looking for hundreds of one night stands either. What they are looking for are relationships with several people to take on dates to various venues. That does not mean that friends with benefits situations do not arise, but that is not the primary purpose as some would think.


CO-ED Dating Sites – These sites are specifically focused on college-aged students. Having people from the same generation and the same educational background is a great way to jump start your life and your career. College dating sites are an amazing go-to place for students who are away from home and totally on their own for the first time in their lives. Especially if you are new on campus and unsure of where to start meeting people.

Video Dating – These sites are focused on one-to-one interactive video chats. In most cases, the parties never actually meet in person, or expect to. Many people on these sites are exhibitionists who are looking to do things that are not possible in a more public forum.

Swinger Personals – For couples who are into various sexual activities such as three-some sex, wife swapping, group sex – with two or several couples, and in some exceptional cases this also includes bisexual sex.

Nude Dating – Essentially these are sites that specialize in servicing sun worshippers. These sites are also for people who are totally comfortable in their skin. If you have any qualms about the way your look or are embarrassed by your body, then this is not the place to be seeking a companion.

A quick jumping off dating site directory for all of the aforementioned special sites can be seen at: Which Online Dating Sites are the best?

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